I wish I had advice to give about this, but idk, when I was in college I would generally end up going to parties drinking a ridiculous amount and making out with a stranger then laughing about how easy it was to get him hard (like not to be bitchy but bc I’m a terrible drunk and I love kissing and getting boys hard?).
I mean, I guess all I can say is you have to put yourself out there? Like if you’re not looking for a relationship and just want to hook up, college/frat parties are filled to brim with people wanting to do just that. I’ve also found in my experience that there are certain people who are open to the idea of fooling around but never really thought you would be into it? So I’ve subtly brought something like that up in text or FB convos like hey we should hang out sometime or idek just go with the flow and usually you can feel when something is heading towards poundville?